How to Tell Her You Love Her

Step 1

Think about when and where you want to tell her. Is there a special place you want to be? A certain day? For example, you might want to tell her at the restaurant where you went on your first date, or on the two-month or nine-month anniversary of your first date.

Step 2

Set the mood and be romantic. Buy her flowers or a romantic gift.

Step 3

Look at her directly, take her hand and tell her how positive you feel about her. Give her examples of things you really like about her. Be sincere.

Step 4

Tell her how you feel being with her, and how much you enjoy your time together. Be specific about what you value and appreciate about being with her.

Step 5

Follow these positive statements with telling her you love her in whatever way feels best for you. For example: "I feel I've come to love you," "I realize I love you," "I feel so much love for you," "I've fallen in love with you," or simply, "I love you."

How to Be Romantic to your Girlfriend

Step 1

Plan a romantic getaway and surprise her. It could be a day downtown sightseeing and staying at a fancy hotel or a day of hiking in the woods. Make it something she enjoys and take her breath away for a day.

Step 2

Make dinner for her and have it ready when she gets home. It could be as simple as spaghetti, but it really is the thought that you love her. The time, effort and taste are all gratitude of your unwavering love.

Step 3

Write a poem and email it to her at work. It isn't easy writing and she knows, even if you rhyme it out, you did it yourself. Loving and putting every word on paper for her to read.

Step 4

Rent a Romantic video and shut off the cell phones. This is a wonderful way to show how much you love her by devoting all your time to her.

Step 5

Get your picture taken together. It doesn't need to be all professionally done, but it does need to show that spark in your relationship. A simple snapshot is a great way to do it!

How to Write a Love Letter

step 1
Use classy pen and paper. Somehow, a love letter written with a blue Bic on office stationery bearing the motto “You want it done WHEN?” doesn’t exactly invoke violins and roses. At the very least, roust up some heavy-stock, elegant-looking paper, and if you must use an ordinary pen, choose one with a classy color of ink.

Step 2

Open with a tender salutation. “Dear Sirs” or “To Whom It May Concern” are businesslike and direct, but they don’t quite set the proper tone of intimacy. Instead, try “my dearest ____” or “my beloved____,” and be sure to get the name of the person right (you’d be surprised how many first-time letter writers flub this small but important detail).

Step 3

Pour out your heart. A love letter isn’t like a high-school essay, with an introduction, expository text, and recapitulation. What you’re aiming for here is an inexhaustible, stream-of-consciousness recitation of the virtues of your beloved, contrasted with your own inimitable shortcomings. As a general rule: the higher the virtue-to-shortcoming ratio, the classier the letter.

Step 4

Stay focused. If you find yourself running out of material, don’t resort to the dental checkup you had the other day or that guy at work, you know, the really annoying one? Who always plays his radio so loud? And I’ve complained and complained to the boss but I guess no one at this company takes me seriously? Instead, take a break until your romantic fount is replenished and you can get back to that virtue/shortcoming thing.

Step 5

Close with a tender valediction. As in step #2, the cumulative effect of your heartfelt love letter will be completely negated by a lame “regards,” “sincerely” or “respectfully yours.” Consider something more pungent, such as “if only ‘twere written in blood, your abased servant, on whose unworthy head I bid thee bestow thine blessing,” etc. etc.

Step 6

Hire a calligrapher. Once you’ve chosen the proper envelope and stamp—again, consult rule #1—consider hiring a master of fruity scripts to inscribe your beloved’s name and address. The handwriting should be fancy enough to make the mailman squint, but not so fancy that your beloved thinks she's received an invitation to a Bar Mitzvah.

18 Signs That a Girl Likes You

If you're looking for signs that a girl likes you, then you're in the right spot. I've put together a surefire list of 18 important things girls do when they're interested in a guy. Remember, these are just some of the many signs girls may show, and sometimes they can be very good at hiding these signs, or playing "hard to get", so don't get discouraged if you don't see them all; just make it a point to LEARN how to make a girl like you.

So, without further ado, here are the 18 signs that a girl likes you:

1. Her eyes will "smile" when she looks at you

2. She'll keep your eye contact a "little too long", and her pupils may dilate

3. She'll become more self-conscious around you, and she'll start doing things like playing with her hair and clothes

4. She'll seek your attention and approval

5. She'll sit up, push her chest out, and arch her back

6. She'll fidget, bite her finger, or pucker her lips

7. She'll wet her lips

8. She'll flutter her eyelashes

9. She'll sit with her legs facing you

10. She'll rub her chin or touch her cheek

11. She'll touch your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hands when talking to you.

12. She'll raise or lower her tone of voice to match yours, and mirror your body language

13. She'll laugh at your jokes

14. In a crowd, she'll give you undivided attention

15. Her skin might become flushed (red) around you

16. She'll whisper things to her friend around you

17. She'll tilt her head slightly at an angle and thrust her hips forward

18. She'll always be in your vicinity in a public situation (you can test this by moving around the room to see if she follows)

Now that you know the signs that a girl likes you, it's important to learn how to make a girl interested in you.

How Do You Make Her Want You?

So, you want to know how you can make HER want YOU? This is good 'cause most guys never really ever take the time to learn the secrets to really make girls feel crazy about them. They'd rather think that they know it all even though Friday and Saturday nights means another night hanging with the guys and not hot women. So, you are taking a step in the RIGHT direction.

Women don't respond to many other things that you think they would. Definitely when you first meet them. Talk to a few attractive women and see what they like and what they notice in a guy. It's not how sweet he is right off the bat or how much money he has or anything like that.

It's how FUN he is!

What do you want to do when you go out? You want to have a good time, right?

Now, think about meeting someone who starts to act all nervous and tense and doesn't know what to say. Does that sound like a good time?

I didn't think SO!

So, why are you doing that when you meet beautiful women? They are already used to having guys want to DO everything for them. So, you are not going to stand out at ALL!

And that's what you have to do. You have to STAND OUT from the other guys. Otherwise you are just going to get lost in the wolf pack. And fellas, you know what the wolf pack is. How you make a girl want you is to stand out from the crowd. The only way to do that is to learn what really works since most guys are doing what doesn't.

Want to know how to really make HER want YOU?